Curated private dating
Discreet, verified, high-intent dating for Bitcoiners, founders, creators, independent professionals, and select couples. Meet people with signal, privacy, and sats-backed intent.
Market model
OnlySats is not an affair product, not porn, and not cheap attention farming. It is a curated private dating market where both sides bring proof, boundaries, and intent before access opens.
The product stays valuable by controlling supply, demand, and incentives. If men outnumber women, price rises, waitlists open, and invites become stricter. If women are scarce, the product improves safety, curation, events, and concierge matching.
The value is not that men pay. The value is fewer low-quality approaches, better boundaries, reputation-backed profiles, and a private environment where being selective feels good instead of exhausting.
Men accept higher pricing when the market offers real women, clear intent, discretion, status filtering, less fake activity, and a path toward actual meetings instead of infinite match theater.
Verified couples belong when they make boundaries, relationship context, and consent visible from the start. They are not a cheap adult-content segment; they are a privacy-sensitive, high-intent group that needs discretion, clear tags, and mutual unlocks even more than casual singles.
Touch the product
Click the flow cards or the phone controls. The UI simulates curated discovery, paid first contact, encrypted chat, experimental date escrow, private media unlocks, and the event log a real Nostr/Cashu prototype would expose during development.
Founder, privacy-minded, coffee after conferences. First message price: 2,100 sats.
Both people deposit sats before the date locks. Completion updates reputation without exposing private details.
Proof of value beats social likes. No-show behavior becomes expensive.
Encrypted private media reference, unlockable with proof of payment.
Nostr event gate, Cashu balance, and local moderation filters.
Two high-signal people enter an encrypted chat where the first message carries real sats intent, not empty swipe noise.
Both sides fund a simulated sats escrow before the date locks. Completion creates a private reputation receipt instead of a fake vanity metric.
The same payment proof unlocks private media, curated circles, and premium signals through encrypted Blossom references.
Debug surface
The MVP can keep this event log visible for development: profile decisions, payment proofs, escrow state, private unlocks, report/block actions, and reputation receipts.